Joseph’s
Dreams Sept. 30, 2012
Background: Before we get into our story for today we
need a little background to set the stage and help us understand the situation
more clearly. Joseph was the son of
Rachel and Jacob. He had 11 brothers and
one sister. This was a mixed family, for Jacob, Joseph’s father, had married
Leah, her sister Rachel and two slave girls Bilhah and Zilpah and had children
with them all. Just prior to our story
Joseph’s mother Rachel died giving birth to his brother Benjamin. After she was
buried her husband moved his family beyond Migdal Eber.
During
his time there, his oldest son Reuben went in and slept with his father’s slave
girl Bilhah and Jacob found out. Jacob
went home to Mamre to visit his father Isaac who was now quite old and while he
was there his father died. Jacob and his
brother Esau burry their father and after this Jacob decides to stay in the
land of Canaan with his family.
Scripture: Gen.
37:1-11
Situation: Joseph, a young shepherd boy of 17 is tending
flocks with his four brothers, Gad, Asher, Dan, and Naphtali. Joseph brings his dad Jacob a bad report
about his brothers. Joseph was Jacob’s
favourite and his father had made him a richly ornamented coat. Joseph’s brothers were jealous of him; they
hated him and could not speak a kind word to him. Joseph has some dreams and tells his brothers
about them. This only makes them angrier
with him. When he tells his father his
second dream Jacob rebukes Joseph.
As we have been doing in the
past we are going to examine the story closely to discover the truths by
looking at what people said and did, the choices they made and the consequences
of those choices. Next we will try to
apply the lessons learned to everyday living.
We will begin by looking at young Joseph.
Our story says that Joseph
brought his father a bad report about his brothers. He had obviously witnessed something and as a
result made a decision. Did Joseph have
options in this situation? What might they have been? He could have spoken to his brothers and
warned them. He could have ignored their
behaviour or chosen not to say anything.
He could have lied to his father about his brother’s bad behaviour to
cover for them. What did Joseph choose
to do and what does this tell us about him.
He told his father about his brother’s bad behaviour. It could mean Joseph cared enough about his
brother’s that he felt something had to be done to correct them. Joseph could have been a righteous young man
concerned for the honor and name of the family and therefore told on his
brothers. He could have been in a
strained relationship with his brother’s and wanted to get back at them so he
told on them.
What were the consequences of
his choice to tell on his brothers? See
vs. 3,4 Joseph’s brothers hated him,
could not speak a kind word to him and in vs. 11 says his brothers were jealous
of him. Like the Song, “Doing it right
on the wrong side of Town” Joseph did the right thing but ended up with some
serious interpersonal family conflict.
Have you ever heard of anyone
in a similar situation today where you did what was right and got into some
real difficulty? Has anything like this ever happened to you?
Jacob, Joseph’s dad seemed to
add fuel to the fire; how did he do that? What choices did he make as a father
and what other options were open to him?
(see vs. 3, 4) Jacob favoured
Joseph openly, publically, and showed it by making him a special robe. Jacob
could have loved his son’s equally, could have given them all special
robes. Jacob could have refused to marry
Bilhah and Zilpah and saved himself some serious grief? Even though polygamy
was an accepted practice culturally it was not God’s design. What were the consequences of Jacob’s
behaviour for his sons?
(Hatred, jealousy and angry and
unkind words) So here we have an interpersonal family conflict which seems to
be escalating. Let’s go back to the
story and see what Joseph does in this situation. (See vs. 5, 9)
Joseph has some dreams and for some reason
decides to tell his brothers. What is
the result of Joseph’s actions, could he have made some better choices under
the circumstances? Joseph’s brothers
become even angrier with him after he told them his dreams. He could have kept his dreams to himself so
as not to antagonize his brothers. Do
you think Joseph’s actions also added fuel to the family conflict?
Up to this point in the story
things appear to be bordering out of control.
We have a family struggling with favouritism, hatred, and jealousy and
the situation seems to be getting more critical by the day. Where is God in all this mess, is He even
around? Look closely at verses 6 and 9. Do you think that anyone in the story
knew that the dreams might be significant?
How would you say the dreams fit
into this story? What can we learn about God and family conflict from this
story?
Conclusion: God works in the midst of crisis
No matter how bad the
situation looks, we need not lose hope because God is at work behind the
scenes.
We may often be so immersed
in the family conflict that we will fail to recognize that God is at work.
Conflict may escalate and
last for a time but that does not mean that God has deserted us.
Listen to the words of
encouragement from the book of Romans 8:28, 31 etc.
And we know that in all
things (that means everything) God works for the good of those who love Him…If
God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare His own Son, but
gave Him up for us all--- how will He not also along with Him, graciously give
us all things? In all things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved
us. For I am convinced that neither
death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither present or future, nor any
powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be
able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.